Afraid of Being Weak. Can't Be Me

In this episode Greg brings in his close friend Mary Tobin, and that chat about a variety of topics. They range from leadership, to helping others with their trauma and grief, and encouraging veterans that they are more than their rank.

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Website: https://www.maryltobin.com
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Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryltobin/
E-Mail: marytobin8@gmail.com

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[00:01 – 5:14] Opening Segment

[5:14 – 50:28] Background and Views on Coping with Trauma and Grief

• Mary talks about her views on whether or not different cultures cope differently and specifically dives into Black culture and how they deal with trauma.
• Mary speaks of her background including her West Point and military experience, as well as her family life and the influence her step father had on her.
• Greg and Mary reflect on the memory of Emily Perez, a dear friend of them both that passed away while deployed

[50:28 – 1:20:19] The Healing Process

• Mary speaks about signs of trauma of grief that she has seen in others and herself
• Mary discusses what kind of support she looked for and how to make amends when you have hurt people along the way

[1:20:19 – 1:37:18] Reflection

• Mary reflects on what kept her going and what caused her to turn and get help
• Does having a counselor with a similar background to you help?
• Mary gives advice to her younger self

[1:37:36 – 1:42:31] Closing Segment

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